Attack is always physical.  Identification with the body is separation.  Communication ends separation. Remember the Holy Spirit interprets the body only as a means of communication.  Align with Spirit and put an end to conflict.

  1. Invite the Holy Spirit into your heart
  2. Set your intention.  I want to resolve this issue.  “Peace is my goal”
  3. No Blame – Give up victim consciousness and be 100% responsible for your contribution to the situation
  4. Listen closely to what is being said and be sure to repeat it with statements such as “So you are saying that”  or “Am I hearing you right when you say”  Validation is key.
  5. Be sure to acknowledge them by saying things like:  “I understand”.  “I hear you”  “That’s a good point”.  “You give me something to think about” “That’s interesting” etc.
  6. If you are not clear ask questions.  Be curious.
  7. Practice empathy.  Try to see things from their perspective.
  8. Appreciate feedback.  It helps you to discover your own unconsciousness grievances and attack thoughts.
  9. Be grateful that everything is now in the light!
  10. Go forth as the light of the world and practice Communication with the Holy Spirit in your heart.