Love & Loss Reflections
Grief is not a problem to be solved or a state to be rushed through. It is an initiation — one that alters the shape of the heart, the way we listen, and the depth at which we love. These reflections were written for those moments when life breaks open in ways we did not choose, and yet are asked to meet with honesty, presence, and care.
The Love & Loss series explores grief as a sacred threshold rather than a failure of faith or strength. Here, sorrow is not bypassed or spiritualised away, but honoured as a teacher that carries its own intelligence. These writings speak to the lived experience of loss — the ache, the disorientation, the quiet reckonings — and the slow remembering that can follow.
This space is for those walking through loss, and for those learning how to stay awake inside it. You are welcome to move slowly here. Read what calls to you. There is no right pace, no correct outcome — only the invitation to remain present, honest, and human.
Grief is often mistaken for a lack of faith — but what if it’s simply love responding to loss? A reflection on grief, spirituality, A Course in Miracles, and the humanity of Jesus.
A Course in Miracles teaches that the world is not real — so where does astrology fit? A reflection on using symbols without mistaking them for truth.
A reflective look at grief through A Course in Miracles — where the five stages become a compassionate, spiritual lens for living with loss rather than rushing to heal it.
This journey through Egypt became a turning point in my healing after Jordy’s passing. Here’s what unfolded on the Nile that night.
What I Know for Sure Now: A Radical Path of Integration By Dehyana I can hardly believe it's been nearly ten months since Jordy's passing. Some days it feels like it happened just yesterday. Other days, it
Written in the Stars: Seeking Meaning Through Astrology After Loss By Dehyana The Moment Everything Changed On Monday morning, October 6, 2024, I was told that my daughter Jordy died by suicide. As I
